Thanks all for the suggestions. On further search I found the following (exhaustive if not conclusive) thread:
http://forums.cervelo.com/forums/p/490/2394.aspx#2394
It appears the phenomenon is not unique, but also not common/predictable:
1. It seems the Soloist Team is a little more prone to this than many other bikes...which slightly shakes my confidence in Cervelo.
2. No one has found any consistent cause. Suggestions have included (a) headset too loose/tight, (b) wheels slightly (if imperceptibly) unbalanced, (c) fork not perfectly symmetrical, (d) handlebars unbalanced, (e) frame poorly made, (f) rider position/grip.
Frankly, I find it hard to believe that rider grip/tensing would cause this problem, although it might make it worse. When it occurred to me, I feel I was riding as comfortably (all relative) as I do at lower-speeds; the wobble started when my speed increased past 40 mph - and it came on very suddenly. Also, I've seen quite a few posts (here and elsewhere) describing rock-solid handling at high speeds...it's hard for me to believe that ALL of those riders are relaxed, while the "wobblers" are not. Moreover, some people have claimed to solve the problem with mechanical changes.
Having to pinch my knees and "relax" - while those may be good general guidelines for descending - does NOT seem to me to be a solution. That would be like telling a race car driver, whose car skids every time he exceeds 170 mph, to just "steer into the skid." That might prevent him from crashing, but doesn't solve the problem with the car.
I will be looking at all the possible mechanical solutions. Checking my headset and handlebars should be relatively easy. Changing wheels is also an easy thing to try. Measuring fork symmetry is apparently more difficult without precise instruments - and changing the fork problematic/expensive. What worries me is the apparent predilection for Soloist Team to have this problem...you have to wonder if something in the frame is prone to imbalance, at least under certain conditions (component build, rider position, etc.).